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18th Healing
18th Healing
Nobody was upset. So why do you feel so guilty?

Oct 5, 2026

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2 min read

Nobody was upset. So why do you feel so guilty?

Why your guilt can't tell a fire from toast.

18th Healing
18th Healing
How old will you be in seven years if you don't?

Sep 28, 2026

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2 min read

How old will you be in seven years if you don't?

The timeline that convinced you it's too late might not be real.

18th Healing
18th Healing
The fifteen minutes you keep skipping

Sep 21, 2026

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1 min read

The fifteen minutes you keep skipping

It's not about the time. It's about what taking it means.

18th Healing
18th Healing
It's not the list that's running the show

Sep 14, 2026

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1 min read

It's not the list that's running the show

It's the thought that shows up when you look at it that's actually running the show.

18th Healing
18th Healing
Why I stopped telling clients to "just set a boundary"

Sep 7, 2026

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2 min read

Why I stopped telling clients to "just set a boundary"

It was never about saying no more. It's about who actually gets your real attention.

18th Healing
18th Healing
Why I stopped trying to pick one kind of motivation

Aug 31, 2026

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2 min read

Why I stopped trying to pick one kind of motivation

Turns out the brain runs two completely different systems for this, and I need both of them.

18th Healing
18th Healing
You can love your life and still grieve another one

Aug 24, 2026

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2 min read

You can love your life and still grieve another one

The problem was never her actual life. It was what she'd never let herself grieve.

18th Healing
18th Healing
The exercise that replaced my pros and cons list

Aug 17, 2026

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2 min read

The exercise that replaced my pros and cons list

The problem was never her actual life. It was what she'd never let herself grieve.

18th Healing
18th Healing
The worksheet I actually filled out before I said yes

Aug 10, 2026

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2 min read

The worksheet I actually filled out before I said yes

Something to actually write on, instead of trying to hold four steps in your head.

18th Healing
18th Healing
The follow-up thought I didn't put in the episode

Aug 3, 2026

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1 min read

The follow-up thought I didn't put in the episode

I caught myself doing it again, a few days later, about something completely different.

18th Healing
18th Healing
What came up when I tried my own exercise

Jul 27, 2026

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2 min read

What came up when I tried my own exercise

I didn't love what I wrote down.

18th Healing
18th Healing
The version of me who couldn't choose dinner

Jul 20, 2026

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2 min read

The version of me who couldn't choose dinner

And what the rebuilding actually took.

18th Healing
18th Healing
Why Being Busy Feels Safer Than Stopping

Jul 13, 2026

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2 min read

Why Being Busy Feels Safer Than Stopping

I recorded this one three times before I figured out what I was actually trying to say.

18th Healing
18th Healing
The gap between "not depressed" and actually alive

Jul 6, 2026

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1 min read

The gap between "not depressed" and actually alive

It is okay that you don't feel the way that you were told you were supposed to feel.

18th Healing
18th Healing

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